Rekindle the spark in your love

 

Well, the valentine season is here, love is in the air and every lovie-dovie is looking forward to a romantic moment. Tis the time of blooming relationships but if yours has gotten old, no need to worry. Your honeymoon phase may be over, but that doesn't have to be the end of your romance. Bring out of  your relationship rut and rekindle the passion that brought you together in the first place.

Try something new or crazy together

Relationships generally lose the spark when couples fall into the same routine. Comfort is must but it's imperative thay this comfort doesn't cause you to overlook your partner or to give up on the possibility of a little excitement. Try something new ; be it any activity, a tv show or a new hobby, that you and your partner will enjoy while changing up your routine in a healthy way.

More intimacy

Physical touch doesn't have to mean bedtime activities but can include things like hugging, back rubs, snuggling or just general touching. This will not only make your partner feel safe but also develop a strong romantic connection. Also, more touching leads to more sex, and will definitely help to rekindle the spark in your relationship. Introducing new things in your sex life can also be a way to bring back the thrill or fire of passion.

Plan surprise dates

Take turns planning secret dates for each other. The surprise will add a mystery and desire. But make sure about your partner's preferences and dislikes. You can also try something adventurous that both of you are interested in.

Finally, identify the strengths of your relationship and dream big. Reawaken yourself to what you have taken for granted. Allow yourself to fully experience the small kindnesses and warm companionship, or acts of affection between you two. Now get ready to fall in love all over again with your partner and have a happy valentine's.

-Susmita Chatterjee